Please Think Twice Before You Get Close to Anyone

14 thoughts on “Please Think Twice Before You Get Close to Anyone”

  1. What do you mean “cheat with you”? Cheating is when you’re in a relationship and one of the people involved “does something” with someone else. Are you really just talking about best friends? So this could apply to two girls or two boys as well :-/? Cuz honestly I don’t spend much time actually thinking about my closest friends lol.


    1. I wrote cheat with you because I didn’t want to mean that if you get close to someone you have to be there forever. If they are hurting you repeatedly and so much that you begin to believe they don’t deserve to be your close friend, then it’s okay to move away. That’s what I meant by “cheat with you.” It could have given the wrong impression, though.

      Yes, this could apply to two girls or two boys as well. And I’m kinda tired of hearing from you that you don’t spend time “thinking” about stuff. :P No one does. But when things like this happens, no matter how much you disagree, you do think. You may accept the reality faster than others, but you do think about it even for the smallest amount of time.


      1. Well… thing is this kinda thing rarely happens to me. Usually I’m the one who decides to step away, because for whatever reason I feel like I can’t be close with her anymore. And usually I don’t do this unless we haven’t kept in touch for a very long time. If one of my closest friends, whom I hear from regularly, all of a sudden decides to “take a break” or “stop being friends”, then of course it’d hurt me… that’s natural.


          1. Let me tell you about a personal experience. I was friends with this girl… we were really close. She called me her big sister even if I’m only a year older than her. On several occasions I invited her over to my place, but she refused to come. Her reason was “I don’t go to anybody’s home”. I tried to understand… really hard… but I couldn’t. All of my close friends – even some who aren’t close – have been at my place. My mom has seen all of my friends. And the fact that she didn’t wanna come… well I couldn’t help but take it personally. Especially after my nephew was born. It was a huge thing for me and usually when a baby comes to the house you don’t have to invite anyone. It’s custom to pay a visit. I invited her but she still refused to come. How can you be close friends with someone merely by chatting online and seeing each other once in a blue moon outside? For me, friendship is more than that. So I pulled away, without regrets. Some other stuff happened afterwards which increased my reluctancy towards her… but the main reason was that one.


              1. I think the reason is me. Probably I can’t be that much entertaining or I don’t have whatever it takes to be a friend you always care about.


              2. Actually friendship is somewhat of a mystery. You can’t really plan it to happen. If it’s meant to happen, it happens. If not, then no matter how hard you try it won’t happen. It’s kinda like falling in love; there has to be a “click”. Although it kinda depends from person to person. Some people have very little requirements of friendship and will call anyone a friend – whereas others (me included) prefer having a few but close and true friends.


      2. And I’m sorry, I didn’t mean to annoy you. It’s just the way you described it… I don’t know… I guess I just interpreted things wrong :).


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