It’s entirely my personal opinion. And today, without any fancy introductory paragraph, I’ll get to the point straight.
You often get close to people. So close that makes others feel that you two are only best friends of each other. I’m assuming that you understand what I mean by getting close. It’s like you care about the other one visually more than anyone else. You think of them all the time you’re free. You like to hang out with them, talk and spend time with them etc. I’m not talking about love, by the way. Take best friends for example.
When you get close to this other person, he or she gets close to you as well if not already. You may not always see it. But if you try hard enough, you’ll feel. But when you suddenly roll back, this other person gets hurt.
The reason why you move back from getting close can be different. In most cases, it’s because you felt that the other person doesn’t care about you as much as you do. While the.consequence seems logical, have you wondered why they try to get back desperately to get close again?
Human makes mistakes. You have to be thoughtful about it. And when this human in question is your best friend, you ought to understand them more than others. If you can’t stay close for long for no reason or because you just feel the other person is careless about you, please don’t get close in the first place.
When you get close and feel that something went wrong, you should understand that something might have gone wrong with the other person as well. They wouldn’t forget to care about you all of a sudden. If you’re their best friend, you need to understand and accompany them, not “undo” your getting close.
So please, be humane and think twice before you get close to the next person. Can you hold on if they can’t talk or communicate for some reason? Can you take it if they are frustrated at something and talks a little rude to you ‘for some time?’
Above all, can you be the real best friend and stay close to them unless they cheat with you?
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